WTF is wedding etiquette?
Weddings are happy occasions filled with love and celebration… or at least they are meant to be. Incorporating a few wedding housekeeping rules will help to keep your special day drama-free.
The Art of Invitations
Wedding invitations set the tone for your special day and convey important information to your guests. Send them out six to eight months before the wedding date, allowing ample time for RSVPs (we recommend 6-8 weeks prior so you’ve got heaps of time to do seating charts, stationary, and confirm numbers for suppliers). Clearly state who is invited, whether it's just the individuals named or if they can bring a plus one. Include all necessary details, such as the ceremony and reception venues, dress code, and any special instructions. Remember to be considerate of your guests' schedules and provide them with plenty of time to respond.
Dressing up
As a couple, you have the freedom to set the dress code for your wedding. Whether it's black-tie, semi-formal, or casual, clearly communicate the dress expectations to your guests. Include the dress code on your invitations or wedding website to ensure everyone is appropriately attired. If you have a specific theme or color scheme, consider sharing it with your guests as well, so they can align their attire accordingly. It's important to strike a balance between expressing your preferences and respecting your guests' comfort.
The gift that keeps on giving
Gifts are a thoughtful way for guests to celebrate your marriage. When creating a wedding registry, offer a variety of price points to accommodate different budgets. If you’re not wanting physical gifts and prefer a wishing well, clearly state that on the invites so guests know how to celebrate you best.
Seating Arrangements
Thoughtful seating arrangements can contribute to a harmonious and enjoyable reception. Take into consideration the relationships and dynamics among your guests to ensure everyone is seated comfortably. Seat close family and friends near the bridal party and arrange tables strategically to encourage mingling and conversation. If there are guests with special dietary requirements, inform the caterer in advance and make appropriate seating arrangements. Well-planned seating arrangements can enhance the overall experience for your guests.
Wedding etiquette serves as a guide to help create a seamless wedding day and reflects the love you have for your guests. Need a hand sorting the finer details? Book in for your free consult and let’s have a chat.